https://twitter.com/punchlinecopy/status/1474469259183022082
It’s good to say what we mean.
Speaking in riddles… expecting mind-reading… quickly becomes toxic.
“Do you want to help” is absolutely fine if you’re OK with the answer being “no”.
Otherwise, say what you mean.
Do you need the help? Want the help? Would appreciate the help? Are there consequences if you’re not given help?